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Richard Hoffman here. Today, we're going to explore values, principles, and the importance of support systems. This discussion is vital as we consider the adjustments and the changes needed in our lives, including our values. Imagine being in different life scenarios where you're asked to reflect on the chaos around you or to identify what matters most. This exercise hints at the core of what we're addressing today—adjusting our values and principles because they guide how we perceive and interact with the world. Let's begin by discussing the concept of a sensory blind spot, another term for script term. This phenomenon happens when we recognize things only when we value them. For instance, if a mother, in a stormy night filled with various distractions like doors slamming and dogs howling, only wakes up when her baby softly cries, it's because the baby's cry holds significant value to her, reaching her cognitive center despite other loud noises which do not. This functions similarly across all senses. Say you're in a mall and notice a window display decorated for Halloween. What you perceive there—whether it's creative artistry or capitalistic manipulation—says more about your values than about the display itself. It's about recognizing what aligns with your values. One practical step you can take is to sit in a public place like a mall and observe passersby, trying to recognize expressions of love or creativity. These are always present but frequently overlooked because they might not be valued or recognized as significant by us. Our ability to reset or adjust these values to see more positivity and potential around us is crucial. For instance, switching from valuing chaos to appreciating serenity can profoundly transform our experience of life. This shift allows us to see tranquility in ordinary moments, like watching ducks in a park, which previously might have been overshadowed by a preference for adrenaline-fueled activities. In adjusting values, it's also essential to establish principles for each sector of our lives, whether personal, professional, or social. If spoken about the importance of having mentors, akin to having different coaches in a sports team, each specializing in different areas like finances or health, which enhances our ability to navigate complex life challenges effectively. Remember, changing principles isn't just an intellectual exercise; it's about what principles you choose to live by, which define your interactions and decisions. For example, deciding never to be alone with another woman if you're a married man is a principle that safeguards one's marriage. Ensure that the principles reflecting your values are actionable and lead to measurable improvements in your life. They should also inspire a spirit of adventure and a desire for a well-lived life, not just a survival through the motions. Conclusively, values and principles are not static; they evolve as we grow and as our circumstances change. Being open to this evolution, guided by thoughtfully chosen principles and supported by reliable mentors, enables us not just to cope with life but to thrive, creating a fulfilling and principled existence.
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